The roads not taken

Do the roads not taken really exist outside of poetry?
Can we reach out into parallel universes?
Can we taste and smell alternative worlds?

Is it worth thinking about them? Do we have enough time to?

Measuring a summer's day
I only finds it slips away to grey
The hours they bring me pain.

-- Jimmy Page, "Tangerine", circa 1970.

Between waiting for the long days to end and living before its too late, a balance needs to obtain. Sooner rather than later.

Work

"Your work does not define your life." I have heard this one many times; it also comes with minor variations. However, work does become a significant part of our lives because it pays the bills and because you take up a job you enjoy doing. Consider this: If you were a rock star or a tennis superstar, your work would be your life. You would want it no other way, and neither would the millions who adore you. If you were a business tycoon or a politician, the same would hold.

So, it seems to me that if you are either rich, or famous, or both, then it you are not only allowed but also encouraged, or should I say, expected, to make your work your life. If not, you have to somehow have a "life" that is completely different from and more important than your "work."

While I do not promote people working 12 hour days or living in their office, I think a good balance is required. If work is not take seriously, maybe its time for a career change. If you think you are overworked, look for another job, or ask yourself if you can live happily with a lower paycheck.

Back when I was in elementary school, it seemed like school was my entire life. There were many Sunday nights (and panic Monday mornings) when I wondered if life can get any worse, since I hadn't done my homework that was assigned. However, I was told school was very important. I did try to stay at home to "spend quality time" with my parents, but I was forced to go to school, even if I were sobbing. Cut to 20 years into the future, and the prevalent attitude is that it is normal to "spend quality time" by taking time off from work.

Why was going to school more important than going to work?

I think people should decide for themselves. If you really love your work, you will spend time there as needed. If you really love your life outside of work, you will spend time there as well.